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ETC: Everyday Thoughts Collected: Interview with Marine Cpl Matt Sanchez

  • Jus Me · 2 years ago
    Thank you, Randy and Matt. Good interview.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Thank you all for your encouragement. I enjoyed doing the interview. I might try to do more.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    The eighth commandment prohibits lying. Unfortunately, Mr. Sanchez has been doing little but spreading lies in the past month. Folks, you are being played. You need to take a good, hard look at this man.
    Let's start with his prostitution, ... ::: the rest deleted:::
    note from Randy, William, get your own blog for posts a million miles long accusing Matt of all kinds of lying.
  • Mike T. · 2 years ago
    What a skilled way to chat with someone! Randy, you're certainly a professional. Ok, obvious statements aside...
    That was really encouraging. I can certainly identify with the feelings of being marginalized because of my walk with God, and that the education realm is propogating hate toward Christians. However, I am also prompted to turn to God's word on that emotion, so here we go...
    (2Co 4:8) We are experiencing trouble on every side, but are not crushed; we are perplexed, but not driven to despair;
    (2Co 4:9) we are persecuted, but not abandoned; we are knocked down, but not destroyed,
    (2Co 4:10) always carrying around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our body.
    (2Co 4:11) For we who are alive are constantly being handed over to death for Jesus'sake, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our mortal body.
    Thanks for hanging in there... both of you!
  • Mike Ensley · 2 years ago
    Wow. Amazing interview. Great job, Randy, and thank you, Cpl. Sanchez!
  • Mike Ensley · 2 years ago
    Wow. Amazing interview. Great job, Randy, and thank you, Cpl. Sanchez!
  • Mike T. · 2 years ago
    What a skilled way to chat with someone! Randy, you're certainly a professional. Ok, obvious statements aside...

    That was really encouraging. I can certainly identify with the feelings of being marginalized because of my walk with God, and that the education realm is propogating hate toward Christians. However, I am also prompted to turn to God's word on that emotion, so here we go...

    (2Co 4:8) We are experiencing trouble on every side, but are not crushed; we are perplexed, but not driven to despair;

    (2Co 4:9) we are persecuted, but not abandoned; we are knocked down, but not destroyed,

    (2Co 4:10) always carrying around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our body.

    (2Co 4:11) For we who are alive are constantly being handed over to death for Jesus'sake, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our mortal body.

    Thanks for hanging in there... both of you!
  • Jus Me · 2 years ago
    Thank you, Randy and Matt. Good interview.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Thank you all for your encouragement. I enjoyed doing the interview. I might try to do more.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    The eighth commandment prohibits lying. Unfortunately, Mr. Sanchez has been doing little but spreading lies in the past month. Folks, you are being played. You need to take a good, hard look at this man.

    Let's start with his prostitution, ... ::: the rest deleted:::

    note from Randy, William, get your own blog for posts a million miles long accusing Matt of all kinds of lying.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    So much for certain Christians and the truth, eh Randy? Thanks for behaving exactly as predicted.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Thank you Susan, thanks for your unverified anonymous post USMC Officer.
    I've learned that all kinds of things can be made up and spread across the Internet. Including identities of real people being stolen by others willing to create profiles or sites on their behalf (i.e. what is termed "sock puppetry" on the web.)
    I did an interview, these are the results ... you can believe them or not.
  • Susan H · 2 years ago
    Great job with the interview, Randy. I appreciated hearing Marine Cpl Sanchez's answers to your good questions.
  • USMC Officer · 2 years ago
    Randy, you are to be commended for attempting to make sense of Cpl. Sanchez. And for someone who isn't a journalist, you have a good rhythm of asking questions. I think the reason William Wilson posted was not to attack you, but to enlighten your readers about how many inconsistencies and untruths have been uncovered in the (very) many interviews Matt Sanchez has given since this controversy began, only a month ago. This isn't to say Sanchez shouldn't be forgiven, because I myself think he should get the help he needs, but to point out that he's made contradictory statements to the ones given here in other places.
    I am an Officer in the United States Marine Corps, so I have a particular interest in finding the truth in this case. Sanchez is still one of us, though I'm dismayed at how he's lived his life in the Corps. Unfortunately, he's engaged in prostitution while a member and that goes against our code in the Corps.
    I wish you continued success in your journalistic efforts, Randy.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    Randy, a couple things. First, while my posting was long it wasn't nearly as long as the interview itself. Second, my posting consisted of verified facts.
    Your sympathies blind you to the truth. You are a Pharisee, protecting one of your own. It's funny, maddening and, as I look at today's politicized "Christians," all too predictable.
  • Laura Leigh · 2 years ago
    Good interview. I'll be reposting this on my blog because it intrigues me so.
    William Wilson responded to your decision to edit his comments with "so much for certain Christians and the truth..." Nothing in this interview concerns me. As you've stated in other posts recently, there really is a problem, in the view of many, with a man or woman changing the way they choose to live their lives. That point of view (Willim's included) certainly undermines the power of the mere human to make drastic changes in their lives simply because they want change. Add to that the additional power afforded mere humans through conversion or other meaningful spiritual experiences and we see humans changing all the time.
    Additionally, I don't see the problem with someone continuing to try to make such changes even if they relapse. Anything that is strongly addictive or deeply seated requires LOTS of active choosing over long periods of time to make changes. I'm still a work in progress regarding my sexually addicted, lesbian past...Yet, at the 17-year mark I have to say that it is a very rare day that I deal with any significant sexual temptation of any kind and I'm glad I've done the work required to find that peaceful place.
    Anyway, I appreciate this post and Sanchez's clear direction and his effort in living with some moral code and direction. As a conservative, I've got no problem with this man's history.
  • Laura Leigh · 2 years ago
    Good interview. I'll be reposting this on my blog because it intrigues me so.

    William Wilson responded to your decision to edit his comments with "so much for certain Christians and the truth..." Nothing in this interview concerns me. As you've stated in other posts recently, there really is a problem, in the view of many, with a man or woman changing the way they choose to live their lives. That point of view (Willim's included) certainly undermines the power of the mere human to make drastic changes in their lives simply because they want change. Add to that the additional power afforded mere humans through conversion or other meaningful spiritual experiences and we see humans changing all the time.

    Additionally, I don't see the problem with someone continuing to try to make such changes even if they relapse. Anything that is strongly addictive or deeply seated requires LOTS of active choosing over long periods of time to make changes. I'm still a work in progress regarding my sexually addicted, lesbian past...Yet, at the 17-year mark I have to say that it is a very rare day that I deal with any significant sexual temptation of any kind and I'm glad I've done the work required to find that peaceful place.

    Anyway, I appreciate this post and Sanchez's clear direction and his effort in living with some moral code and direction. As a conservative, I've got no problem with this man's history.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    William, you are a pretty imposing legalist (as bad as any religious legalist I've met). Your comment was basically calling Matt a liar and then attempting to take over my blog with a mile long set of accusations. I don't owe you a soapbox. Even so, I did allow your assertion that he is a liar to remain.

    It's not like you are the only one saying Matt is a liar. If people are truly interested they would find your arguments that he is alllll over the place. I respect that the Internet is larger than my blog and I don't owe you a soapbox no matter how manipulative you want to be.

    I did an interview and posted it for what it is. If you want to copy/paste internet born arguments calling Matt a liar... do so on your own blog.

    And even if Matt is a liar, which I don't think he was lying to me, I would hope to show him grace and forgiveness ... not name calling and manipulation like your comment (before the edit) was full of.

    So, you are not banned from my blog but I am setting your user name to be moderated. I am also halfway savvy to "sock puppet" and "troll" kind of comments.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Laura Leigh, thank you for your gracious response :) and for sharing a part of your testimony.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    Randy, a couple things. First, while my posting was long it wasn't nearly as long as the interview itself. Second, my posting consisted of verified facts.

    Your sympathies blind you to the truth. You are a Pharisee, protecting one of your own. It's funny, maddening and, as I look at today's politicized "Christians," all too predictable.
  • Susan H · 2 years ago
    Great job with the interview, Randy. I appreciated hearing Marine Cpl Sanchez's answers to your good questions.
  • USMC Officer · 2 years ago
    Randy, you are to be commended for attempting to make sense of Cpl. Sanchez. And for someone who isn't a journalist, you have a good rhythm of asking questions. I think the reason William Wilson posted was not to attack you, but to enlighten your readers about how many inconsistencies and untruths have been uncovered in the (very) many interviews Matt Sanchez has given since this controversy began, only a month ago. This isn't to say Sanchez shouldn't be forgiven, because I myself think he should get the help he needs, but to point out that he's made contradictory statements to the ones given here in other places.

    I am an Officer in the United States Marine Corps, so I have a particular interest in finding the truth in this case. Sanchez is still one of us, though I'm dismayed at how he's lived his life in the Corps. Unfortunately, he's engaged in prostitution while a member and that goes against our code in the Corps.

    I wish you continued success in your journalistic efforts, Randy.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Thank you Susan, thanks for your unverified anonymous post USMC Officer.

    I've learned that all kinds of things can be made up and spread across the Internet. Including identities of real people being stolen by others willing to create profiles or sites on their behalf (i.e. what is termed "sock puppetry" on the web.)

    I did an interview, these are the results ... you can believe them or not.
  • William Wilson · 2 years ago
    Randy, I did some quick checking on you. I hadn't known that you have a history of opening and then closing website, usually after you've been caught in one lie or another. I hadn't known of your connection to the Exodus Int'l ex-gay group. The ex-gay ministries are notorious for their recidivism rates.

    I'd say Matt Sanchez found himself a good home here. He'll need one once the Marine Corps kicks him to the curb. You are truly made for each other. But keep it at arm's length, fellas. Jesus is watching.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Gosh, I didn't know that about me either.

    William, you aren't helping convince me of your claims by obsessively posting here and around the web ( "quick checking" is easy).
  • USMC Officer · 2 years ago
    My name isn't Susan. Who's unverified and anonymous? Are you somehow angry that I mixed some criticism in of Matt Sanchez along with my compliments of you?

    Just calling them as I see them. Calling me Susan or "unverified anonymous" doesn't make one want to post here that much. Are you somehow implying I'm not an Officer in the Marine Corps? That's a road you don't want to go down, my friend. Did you think I was going to post my full name, DOB and SS#? The Internet doesn't work that way.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    I was referring to Susan when I referred to Susan.

    I am not angry a bit and thanks for the compliments. At the same time, you are an anonymous person claiming to be a Marine Officer.

    Did I ask you for your DOB or SS#? Your second reaction is curious.
  • Jack Yan · 2 years ago
    I am surprised there has even been controversy to what you transcribed, Randy. I read the interview, and thought it was fair. I believe Cpl. Sanchez has a right to choose, and, therefore, the right to choose to change his life for the better. Despite being outside the US, and a non-American, I had assumed that freedom was a tenet of the nation’s beliefs. Whatever the man’s past, he engaged in (I believe) legal actions, and in 2003, he chose to better himself by joining what he saw to be an honourable cause.
    The opponents suggest to me that they wish to shut the door on such decisions that, ultimately, could benefit their nation. Why they want someone who has done something that is, in their eyes, immoral to remain that way, I do not know. Is it convenience? Pigeonholing? I had hoped that forgiveness for those past deeds and allowing Cpl. Sanchez to serve his nation would be a more fitting gesture of any American.
    At the end of the day, regardless of nation, we are all human, and I believe in respecting Cpl. Sanchez’s free will.
  • Laura Leigh · 2 years ago
    Hello, Randy. As unskilled as I am, I've referred to this post on my baby-blog.
  • Laura Leigh · 2 years ago
    Hello, Randy. As unskilled as I am, I've referred to this post on my baby-blog.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    I html'ed your link to make it easy and clickable. Thanks for the heads up and for posting a great post about this post :).
  • Jack Yan · 2 years ago
    I am surprised there has even been controversy to what you transcribed, Randy. I read the interview, and thought it was fair. I believe Cpl. Sanchez has a right to choose, and, therefore, the right to choose to change his life for the better. Despite being outside the US, and a non-American, I had assumed that freedom was a tenet of the nation’s beliefs. Whatever the man’s past, he engaged in (I believe) legal actions, and in 2003, he chose to better himself by joining what he saw to be an honourable cause.

    The opponents suggest to me that they wish to shut the door on such decisions that, ultimately, could benefit their nation. Why they want someone who has done something that is, in their eyes, immoral to remain that way, I do not know. Is it convenience? Pigeonholing? I had hoped that forgiveness for those past deeds and allowing Cpl. Sanchez to serve his nation would be a more fitting gesture of any American.

    At the end of the day, regardless of nation, we are all human, and I believe in respecting Cpl. Sanchez’s free will.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Thank you Jack for your great perspective. I love you adding your views because they always *add* to the discussion and not detract or derail. Also, your perspective is unique and valuable to us all to often ethnocentric Americans.
  • ewe · 2 years ago
    get a room randy and matt.
  • ewe · 2 years ago
    get a room randy and matt.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Well aren't ewe clever!

    Oh wait, I am supposed to be insulted.

    ::: pouting for 30 seconds with a couple of heavy sighs of anguish thrown in :::

    I ::: sniffle ::: am so ... SO hurt you would say something so disrespectful.

    Ok.... ::: smile ::: I am not really hurt but thanks for playing.

    Next ...
  • ewe · 2 years ago
    no randy, you actually are the one who cant play. And... if you consider bashing your unaccepted gay self as some sort of play action, then you are more twisted than any cure camp you go to can possibly ever help you with. You are in denial. keep fighting. your power is not real. your words are silly because you sit in judgement and espouse god. immature hypocrite. Oh but have a nice day now ya hear.
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    I am sorry ewe are so misguided about who I am and what I am about. It's a good think ewe are not me.

    I say no to bashing (even though your post bashes my path), never heard of a "cure camp" and am out and proud of the fact that I am more than a sexuality.

    Life is to precious to be limited to a gay centric ideology.

    Moving on ...
  • ewe · 2 years ago
    politically correct gobbledygook Randy. i do indeed bash your path because your denial of self is a terrible obstacle on those who consider life so precious that they embrace their sexuality and assimilate it into their whole being. you dont. grow up.
  • ewe · 2 years ago
    decided to censor now Randy?
  • Randy · 2 years ago
    Censor? oh yes, absolutely and your follow up posts totally deserve it. You call me names, distort my beliefs and dehumanize my life. Yes, in the capacity that this is my blog and you have plenty of other ways to make your views known, I have held your comments in queue. You have been censored and will continue to be so until you start to show some tolerance (which do not include personal attacks) for other points of view that you don't agree with.

    In case you missed it, here is the comment policy linked also in my sidebar.
  • Scott L. · 1 year ago
    "It is as though the man is considered hypocritical primarily because he has a gay (or gay porn) history and yet aligns himself with conservative politics–calling himself a 'Regan Republican.'"

    This is not the controversy at all as far as I know. I am certainly not in agreement with the homosexual lifestyle choice or the gay agenda. But allegations came out that Sanchez was not honest with the Corps about his activity as a gay prostitute. Also, the Marine Corps Times published an article stating that Sanchez had been discharged due to medical reasons. If by chance he was HIV+ and still having unprotected sex with other homosexual males, I would not at all consider him a "Reagan Republican". Bedroom behavior can be an indicator of someone's integrity. If Mr. Sanchez is struggling with same-sex attraction disorder, then we should offer him our prayers. But until he stops the actual behavior, his sinful lifestyle cannot be ignored. Remember, we ourselves embrace evil when we excuse others who hide their sinful practices.
  • Scott L. · 1 year ago
    "It is as though the man is considered hypocritical primarily because he has a gay (or gay porn) history and yet aligns himself with conservative politics–calling himself a 'Regan Republican.'"
    This is not the controversy at all as far as I know. I am certainly not in agreement with the homosexual lifestyle choice or the gay agenda. But allegations came out that Sanchez was not honest with the Corps about his activity as a gay prostitute. Also, the Marine Corps Times published an article stating that Sanchez had been discharged due to medical reasons. If by chance he was HIV+ and still having unprotected sex with other homosexual males, I would not at all consider him a "Reagan Republican". Bedroom behavior can be an indicator of someone's integrity. If Mr. Sanchez is struggling with same-sex attraction disorder, then we should offer him our prayers. But until he stops the actual behavior, his sinful lifestyle cannot be ignored. Remember, we ourselves embrace evil when we excuse others who hide their sinful practices.