Good point about male-male objectification. It surely does happen.
I think I'd have trouble hearing someone handing me a beer at a bar/club (where honestly the point of drinking in most of these establishments is to actually get drunk for most people). Handing me a beer at a bbq is one thing, but in an environment where he's giving people beer to help them get drunk, I dunno. Seems like a conflict.
Brian
· 1 year ago
I went to school and SoCal, they claim it's a different state up there but I found my visits rather enjoyable whenever I made the trek up the coast. Enjoy the scenery!
B.T.Carolus
· 1 year ago
Brian, nobody in SoCal has ever claimed that NorCal isn't enjoyable...we just think they're a bit different. Of course most Americans seem to think that about our state generally, so maybe we're a little different down here too :)
Randy
· 1 year ago
Brady I agree. That's what we talked more personally about. The striking thing was that he hadn't thought of those aspects of what he was doing.
Ellie and Brian *this* American thinks California is very odd ... and I love it. I do think there is a big difference between SoCal and NoCal ( :) ) I won't enumerate them because I haven't really thought about it much. For the moment, Southern California is very different but understandable. Northern California is very different and in some ways a culture shock. Again, I haven't really thought through it.
Oh and when I say very different I don't mean that in a bad way. Different in that it is different from anywhere else in the country.
Amy
· 1 year ago
I loved living in Northern California! I think it's the most beautiful place I've every been. A death in the family called me home to Texas, I pray one day I will own a home in Northern California. Folsom California is a perfect vacation spot. :)
Randy
· 1 year ago
Well ... that sounds good as long as I don't vacation there around the time they schedule the Folsom Street Fair thing. Yikes.
Amy
· 1 year ago
what's the Folsom street fair thing? I've never heard of that. My guess from you mentioning it, it's something that's doesn't reflect Christ.
Amy
· 1 year ago
The thing that brought me to Folsom was a new job. I never got into any social events. I loved the outdoors. I was only about an hour from Lake Tahoe. Beautiful!!
Amy
· 1 year ago
Ok, I feel like an idiot. The Folsom street fair was an outdoor street event where they set up booths advertising different vendors. I remember going to that, I picked up dog treat for the girls. I was thinking it was some sort of parting event.
Randy
· 1 year ago
Don't feel like an idiot. We might be talking about two different places. The Folsom Street Fair I am thinking of is a blasphemous street fair somewhere in San Francisco. It's probably on Folsom Street in San Fran. I would google it but... I don't particularly want to research that party.
Amy
· 1 year ago
I understand how you could get things mixed up. Folsom is a town outside Sacramento, that's where I lived. The walking trails in Folsom are absolutely breathe taking. After getting off work, walking the girls was my high light. Ever been to that part of California?
Randy
· 1 year ago
I have only been to Stockton and San Jose. Folsom (the town) sounds nice.
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I think I'd have trouble hearing someone handing me a beer at a bar/club (where honestly the point of drinking in most of these establishments is to actually get drunk for most people). Handing me a beer at a bbq is one thing, but in an environment where he's giving people beer to help them get drunk, I dunno. Seems like a conflict.
Ellie and Brian *this* American thinks California is very odd ... and I love it. I do think there is a big difference between SoCal and NoCal ( :) ) I won't enumerate them because I haven't really thought about it much. For the moment, Southern California is very different but understandable. Northern California is very different and in some ways a culture shock. Again, I haven't really thought through it.
Oh and when I say very different I don't mean that in a bad way. Different in that it is different from anywhere else in the country.